Childhood Friends Reunited — In The Middle Of The Vietnam War
Vince Cantu and Joe Galloway, both aged 76, have been friends since they met as third graders in the tiny town of Refugio, Texas.
After their high school graduation in 1959, Joe left town to become a journalist. Vince stuck around Refugio where he fronted a local band, until he was drafted into the Army in 1963. Naturally, the two lost track of each other over the years.
But the two reunited in a most unexpected place: in South Vietnam, where the U.S. was ratcheting up its involvement in the war. Joe and Vince recounted the moment during a StoryCorps interview.
"The next time you and I saw each other was in the middle of the Vietnam War in the Ia Drang Valley," says Joe, who was there as a journalist photographing the battlefield. "You were running full speed across this landing zone under fire to pick up a body of one of your comrades."
And there's a famous picture to prove it. Without realizing he'd caught his childhood friend on film at the time, a picture Joe took of Vince during the Battle of Ia Drang would eventually end up printed in several magazines, illustrating the cost of war.
It took Vince a minute to recognize Joe, too. "I saw you come out from behind a termite hill and I thought you were going to shoot me. So, I hit the ground," Vince says. "But I kept looking and I said, 'I wonder why he is taking pictures instead of having a weapon.' And I looked back and I said, 'I know that guy.' And that's when I said 'Joe!' "
But photos aren't necessary for Joe to recall the tragic scenes. "After three days in that place, we probably killed 1,500 of the enemy all around this little clearing in the jungle," Joe says. "It is very hard explaining war and combat to civilians. The smell of blood in large quantities. The smell of napalm. People burning in front of your eyes."
"The worst smell in the world," Vince adds. After his service, Vince says he didn't pick up a rifle again for 15 years. "I'm glad I went and I'm glad I did what I did, but every night when I go to bed I pray," he says. "I even pray for the ones I put down."
Years after the war, Joe was decorated with a Bronze Star Medal for rescuing soldiers during the Battle of the Ia Drang Valley — the only medal the U.S. Army awarded to a civilian for actions in combat during the Vietnam War.
Joe and Vince remain friends today. "I'm awfully proud to know you, Vince Cantu," Joe says.
"Thank you, Joe," Vince says. "My brother."
"My brother," Joe replies.
Audio produced for Weekend Edition by Kelly Moffitt.
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