Your Story: A son fondly remembers times spent in the Michigan woods with his father

Mar 8, 2012

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We lost my father (pictured above with Jason in 1981) to kidney cancer in March of 2003. A Kentucky born avid outdoors-man, devoted father, husband, and employee, he worked nearly his entire 60 years to pass 18 months after retirement.

A poor diagnosis from his primary doctor, and his general stubbornness, did not help the matter. One week after his passing we found out we were pregnant with my daughter.

Most days I look at her and chuckle at the thought of my father with her. He would have loved her just as I do. He had bought property in Albion for us to hunt on. Father and son, in the woods doing what he enjoyed most. It took several years for me to return to that ground without him. My father would not have approved of that.

I miss him more and more nearly every day. With each milestone, challenge, and “I told you so”, that passes, I wish he were still here to council me, laugh at me, and laugh with me.

-Jason Ratliff

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